June 12th, 2010

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I can’t be broken.  I just wanted to say it, for the record.  I can post a picture of my boobs on the internet, in the interest of self healing and self awareness.  And my deliciously squishy belly, in the interest of self acceptance.  But I can’t be broken.  I know this, because I know from where all my intentions spring, and I mean well to all and for all, regardless of how it may play out.  I know this, as well, because in the face of direct onslaught, I still receive blessings of all forms from all sides.  The sun is shining and all is well.  There may be unpleasantness that I have to walk through, but the sun is still shining on me.  So I will continue holding my head high, and I will keep smiling.

Meanwhile, I may have to lawyer up.  But I can do that, if I have to.

And I won’t let one man’s colossal lack of testicular fortitude keep me from believing in the goodness of people in general and men in particular.

I’m not sure how well I can shield the children from their father’s lack of redeeming qualities.  I want for them to grow up with respect for him, but he leaves very little room for such things to be possible.

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5 Responses to “cosmic flow”

aunty evil Says:

Did someone say something mean to you in regard to your previous post? I hope not, it was a lovely post!!!!a

sueeeus Says:

No. Gadget is whining about having to pay his pittance of child support and in retaliation says he’s going to sue me to go after half of the house, my 401k (retirement), and spousal support.

aunty evil Says:

I’m so sorry. What a jerk!

suse Says:

He wants YOU to give HIM money? Tell him grown ups get jobs and buy their own food, clothes and houses. Tell him all YOUR money goes to paying for YOUR food, clothes and house, and HIS CHILDREN’S food, clothing and house and surely he can manage HIS OWN shit.

Or get a lawyer who can tell him that in writing.

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sara0611 Says:

I hope you get an attack dog for a lawyer who just shreds him to pieces and a judge who tells him everything that Suse just said. Twice. And then makes him pay for your attack dog lawyer and for wasting everyone’s time with his pathetic, lazy, selfish whining.